My version of the wild orchids is meditation – I do it for myself, it is my passion and individual bliss, however I do know the importance of it. I do it to calm myself and clear the bad emotions during the day and leave a quite and positive mind.

I experience conflict between self-care and caring for others all the time. Sometimes when my friend and I are discussing something, I oftentimes fall back and neglect some arguments that I want to make so that I do not hurt their feelings. Also, when they tell me something that they are interested but which I am not, I still listen to them despite annoying myself. Currently, I compromise and do my best so that I do not offend others (which means I offend myself all the time). However, I need some principals of my own and will improve on this shortly.